The book you give your child when they’re old enough to make their own choices,
but young enough to need direction—and for the parents, grandparents,
and mentors who want to help them build a life that lasts.

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Building a Life That Lasts

We are living through a time of profound change. Institutions that once earned our confidence now struggle to deserve it. Technology promised to connect us, yet too often leaves us distracted, divided, and drowning in noise.

But while the way we live has changed dramatically, what it takes to live well has not. A meaningful life isn’t built all at once. It’s built through a thousand small decisions no one else sees.

In 52 short essays, one father passes along enduring lessons about gratitude, discipline, friendship, marriage, money, work, faith, and the lifelong work of building a good life. Drawing from history, great books, ordinary people, and a healthy supply of his own mistakes, Getting Grounded offers a practical compass for building a life that lasts.

Written for young adults beginning life on their own—and for the parents, grandparents, and mentors who hope to leave them with something lasting.

What Readers are Saying

  • “This book is a much needed reminder that navigating my 20’s doesn’t mean I have to have everything figured out. I appreciate how encouraging, honest and practical this book is without ever feeling preachy. Definitely a must-read!”

    Amanda L.
    College Student

  • “Part heartfelt playbook, part compass. Getting Grounded cuts through the noise to deliver honest, timeless wisdom for anyone aiming to build a life of purpose.”

    Bryce Y.
    Private Equity Managing Partner

  • “Direct and wise without being preachy, Getting Grounded takes the overwhelming complexities facing young adults and turns them into concrete actions that anyone can implement daily.”

    Troy H.
    Attorney

  • “A beautiful journey encompassing navigating a broken world, discovering joy in small moments and human connections, and finding hope in the uncertainty that lies ahead. Getting Grounded offers new perspectives that can lead to contentment and peace.”

    Christine Y.
    CFO, Global Health NGO

  • “Getting Grounded reads like the advice you wish someone had handed you years ago — not as a lecture, but as fifty-two short, honest conversations. I found myself nodding, and occasionally wincing, at how much of it rang true.”

    Scott E.
    Member, Young Presidents’ Organization (YPO)

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